Living with chronic illness is hard, both on our bodies and minds. The ongoing nature of these conditions can lead to stress and anxiety, and the physical limitations these conditions bring can leave us feeling frustrated or helpless.
No matter how you’re feeling, remind yourself that you’re allowed to feel that way. You’re allowed to feel sad, angry, frustrated, whatever!! There is no “right” way to cope with chronic illness so find the things that work for you and remember that no matter what, you are never alone.
It’s important that we take time to address our mental health in the context of chronic illness; so here are my 5 tips for helping you manage your mental health.
- Feel the feels – being diagnosed with a chronic illness isn’t easy; it can bring about feelings of grief, loss, anger, sadness, and so many more. It’s important that you allow yourself the time and space to feel those feelings. Try not to judge your emotions, allow them to move through you and process them in whatever way feels best.
- Talk to someone – while therapy can be a very helpful tool, it’s not always accessible to everyone; but talking about how you feel doesn’t have to solely be reserved to a therapeutic setting. Talking with a friend, family member, or loved one can be just as beneficial in coping with chronic illness.
- Slowwww downnnnn – chronic illness is taxing, both on our bodies and our minds, so give yourself room to breathe. Remember that life isn’t a race, give yourself the space to do things in your own time. It’s natural to feel like you’re falling behind because of your chronic illness, but remind yourself that life isn’t a competition, wherever you’re at right now is perfectly okay.
- Distract yourself – while it’s important to process our emotions surrounding chronic illness sometimes it can get a bit much; distraction can be a great tool to help you get out of your head and enjoy yourself. This can be something as big as going out with friends, to something as small as watching a show or listening to music. Anything that helps you relax and shake off the chronic illness blues can be helpful.
- Learn – learning about what’s actually going on inside your body can be a great way to cope with having a chronic illness. Sometimes just knowing the physiology behind your condition can put your mind at ease, and help you weather the storm through intense symptom flare ups. Educating yourself on how Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome works and the physiology behind the condition can help you better understand your body.